Jakarta, Spasi-id.com - Rough couple. The case of Lesti Kejora who was suspected of getting
The domestic violence of Ricky Billar's husband surprised many, because before that, this married couple always appeared in public.
These conditions are very common, because there aren't many KDRT victims who don't want to report attacks committed by their spouse, whether by religious perspective or certain traditions in one region.
But before the KDRT incident happens to you, there's no harm in recognizing the rough couple that you should be aware of, before you finally decide to make a more serious relationship.
Here are 10 signs of rough couples to be aware of, quoting The City of Portland Police website, Thursday (29 / 9 / 2022).
- Jealous and possessive
A lot of people think jealousy and possessive as a sign of love and affection, but if her behavior seems to want to be with you, accusing her of cheating all the time.
Besides the marks always going around following, often calling to ask a friend to find out about you should be aware.
- Tend to Control Couple
The attitude of asking you who you are with, what you're wearing, said to where you go to tell her, is that one of the matching traits has a rough attitude.
There's also a sign you should ask a partner permission to do something specific. Even a rough couple sign if he only pretended to care about your safety.
- Want to Fast Serba in Romance
A rough couple can also be marked when he claims to be in love very quickly, even at first sight. The most classic reason is that he would say 'only you can make me this way'.
- Unrealistic Compliments
Praise is possible to make an overprotective couple, but overpraise is also a great concern for you. For example say you're like a superhuman, too kind, always flattering and hoping you're perfect.
- Isolate Couple
A good couple are those who try to blend in with the people around them, rather than demeaning the people you know. Words spoken like your family too controlled, your friends dirty,
- Blame others often
If there are problems at school or work, instead of self-correcting, instead of throwing blame on others. It also tends to be irresponsible of its own behavior.
- Blaming Other People for Emptying
Most of the words that that person says, like you piss me off, you hurt me for not doing what I told you.
These words reflect that he's trying to make you responsible for the emotions he feels. He must take responsibility for his own feelings.
- Hypersensitive
Rude people tend to feel humiliated, see everything as a personal attack, find a fight, and you always don't know what's upsetting them.
- No respect for others
A violent person can also be seen in his attitude to punish children cruelly, he is also insensitive to pain and suffering. Even like to tease a child until crying is also to be noticed.
- Never committed violence
You need to be careful if you hear any news or news of couples having committed violence on others, such as beatings on ex-lovers and so on.
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