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Jakarta, Spami-id.com - Yes, gossiping about being part of every culture, no matter how much people try to avoid it. Everywhere there will always be people who love talking about other people in the back.
It's undeniable that people are gossiping because they feel much easier dealing with other people's problems than dealing with themselves.
But whether we like it, whether we like it or not, we have to accept the fact that we can't do anything to change people's opinions. One thing that can be done is to make a response or a wise gesture of what other people are doing to us.
Dr. Ned Hallawell, a child-and-adult psychiatrist certified, as quoted by the Psychology page defines gossip as sharing real information or imagination without permission and potentially destructive.
And usually, gossipers like to quote the Herways page, more comfortable talking in the back because to speak directly requires courage. There's also a bad feeling when you have to ask people questions.
So now the question is, what do you think makes other people like talking about others in the back?
They're jealous
Most of these things happen within the scope of friendship and family. Someone who believes that good people shouldn't hurt by spreading rumors or bad things that have ever happened in your life.
When a person or you do a job that is judged as fun, enjoy a happy and successful life, the content controls them. It must also be realized that the people closest to you are also human beings who can plant envy.
In the interest of friendship, perhaps you believe that they're really your besties who can't possibly talk about you in the back. In order not to feel trapped by the meaning of friendship, there are underlying differences.
Good friends are those who dare express their opinions or judgments even the worst things.
Success
Some people are not necessarily jealous of seeing others achieve their goals. That's the most common and classical reason why other people talk behind your back. And after offering support and praise, they chose to talk in the back. If they can't have what you have, then they'll ignore your success through the hard work you've done.
Therefore, the jealous person finally decided to talk about you in the back, to reduce the value of success, to reduce your degree. It happens a lot in the scope of work, like in the office world or celebrities who suddenly jump off of it.
People are gossiping about fitting in.
A lot of people gossip about grades being trending. They say positive things and feel know more about information related to other people.
People who gossip have the urge to do the same in their environment. It's because they feel like gossiping is the only way to bond with each other in a more meaningful form of relationship. Yeah, people gossip because they want to fit in.
