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Jakarta, Spasi-id.com - There are things that must not be done and said while in bed. If it's done, it's certain the intimacy built can be damaged within moments.
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In order for an agenda to be in bed to be perfect, you should avoid the following.
- Protests use the word 'always' and 'never Tanner says there are two words that need to be avoided during sex, which is always and never. For example:
'You're always doing the xxx'
'You never did the xxxx'
Instead of criticizing, those two words will feel like attacking. These words will trigger a couple defensive attitudes.
"If you file a complaint, make sure you also show up with ideas [new solutions]," said Tanner.
- Left traces on the body without consent.
There are some things you can't do when you fuck. Since it's done like the same, it doesn't mean you can just leave bite marks or hickey marks on your partner's body. Unless, of course, couples are willing.
In addition to leaving marks, you are also advised not to do any action that triggers the pain of a couple without consent. Like slap, pinch, or even grab a hair.
- Focus on the genital area
Stimulation in the genital area is indeed potent in stimulating sexual passion. Still, it's not wise to focus on this area.
Quoted from the Times of India, you are advised to explore areas less touched or less common in sex. Just start with your ears, back, wrist, stomach, and knees.
Touch it gently and see the couple react. In case you find a hidden gem in these unexpected and potent areas causing couples to lose their heads.
- Put your full weight on the body of the couple.
Some sexual positions require someone to be above the body of the couple. However, don't let your feet fully on the partner's body.
- Adopted sex like porn.
Porn video is not a sex education tool, so whatever happened there wasn't supposed to be adopted.
For example, use of naughty words or certain properties that make sex more passionate. If you want it, you need to first ask for a partner's consent.
- Fake orgasm
Most women pretend to orgasm in order to please a partner. It means good, but it's not the right way.
In fact, some women have trouble reaching orgasm. If that's what you're going through, discuss the difficulties faced with couples, to then together find a solution.
- Noise
How does it feel to have sex without making a sound? It's gonna be weird.
Sex sessions need to be added to sexy voices like a roar, a quick breath, or a moan.
These voices also serve as a way of saying to couples that you feel comfortable and happy.
